Sara Maaria

New era, new state of being

According to The Gregorian calendar, we have changed decades. I’m still kind of bamboozled about it for a couple of reasons. No longer can we say ‘in 20’s’ and mean 1920s. We need the distinction now. But also, 2000’s is the era of music. All of my favorite songs are from early-to-mid noughties. These songsContinue reading “New era, new state of being”

Boundaries are self-care

I was watching Keeping up with the Kardashians, yes I watch the show. Don’t judge. Kourtney, the eldest sister, has set several boundaries around what she wants to share on camera. And her relationships and dating status isn’t one of them. Kim & Khloe share a lot of their drama and what goes on inContinue reading “Boundaries are self-care”

Just BE. Just BREATHE.

The men who are in my life currently are extremely supportive of me. Sometimes it’s hard for me to receive all of it. Be selective, be reflective.The more I know who I am, the more I know what I want and my own worthiness, the more they treat me with respect. But I’m very selectiveContinue reading “Just BE. Just BREATHE.”

Strive for growth

Twice now in a short period of time, I’ve retaliated with two different men in two different occasions. The men that I’m drawn to are alpha males; they prefer order, structure, and logic. They’re assertive, demand respect, and strive for growth. Many women are unable to truly deal with alpha male.Why? Because when they’reContinue reading “Strive for growth”

Empowered Submission

Submission is so much more than just sexual. It is surrendering to his timing. It is giving him space when he asks for it. It is holding space for him with whatever it is he is going through. Surrendering is allowing him to take the lead. Respecting him, never speaking ill of him. Even whenContinue reading “Empowered Submission”

Health is wealth

I’m not a victim of my circumstances. Ever. I always have the power to choose, which is both a blessing and a curse. In those moments when I feel weak, tired and anxiety ridden, I don’t wanna face any decisions. The smallest of things enhances my negative emotions, even something simple as what to makeContinue reading “Health is wealth”

Absorbing the weekend

These last four days have been nothing short of magic. I feel like I’m on a spiritual initiation, something way bigger is happening than what I can comprehend. But everything is aligning divinely. When something major happens in my life, I like to reflect back. As I was preparing to write this post, I wasContinue reading “Absorbing the weekend”

Emotional Intimacy

Many times I’ve tried to start this post. Many times I’ve failed. This is raw and real, it’s vulnerable and something I don’t particularly like to share. I don’t like to share about this because of the shame and guilt around it — but the pain is turned into strength only when you can shedContinue reading “Emotional Intimacy”

First Fetish Event

I asked on my Instagram, what would you be interested more about, healthy Dom/sub dynamic or my 1st fetish event.. and it was 50/50 for both. So, I am going to write about both but let’s unravel the fetish event first. A lot’s been shifting and changing for me, in the bestest of ways possible!Continue reading “First Fetish Event”

Real Life Jane the Virgin

It’s been a minute since I’ve written a decent blog post, but so much has been going on that I’ve not really been in a writing mood. In fact, I’ve challenged myself to do more audio content and especially record videos. It is as much for you as it is for me; you get toContinue reading “Real Life Jane the Virgin”