I was watching Keeping up with the Kardashians, yes I watch the show. Don’t judge. Kourtney, the eldest sister, has set several boundaries around what she wants to share on camera. And her relationships and dating status isn’t one of them. Kim & Khloe share a lot of their drama and what goes on inContinue reading “Boundaries are self-care”
Category Archives: Relationship Coach
Strive for growth
Twice now in a short period of time, I’ve retaliated with two different men in two different occasions. The men that I’m drawn to are alpha males; they prefer order, structure, and logic. They’re assertive, demand respect, and strive for growth. Many women are unable to truly deal with alpha male.Why? Because when they’reContinue reading “Strive for growth”
Empowered Submission
Submission is so much more than just sexual. It is surrendering to his timing. It is giving him space when he asks for it. It is holding space for him with whatever it is he is going through. Surrendering is allowing him to take the lead. Respecting him, never speaking ill of him. Even whenContinue reading “Empowered Submission”
Emotional Intimacy
Many times I’ve tried to start this post. Many times I’ve failed. This is raw and real, it’s vulnerable and something I don’t particularly like to share. I don’t like to share about this because of the shame and guilt around it — but the pain is turned into strength only when you can shedContinue reading “Emotional Intimacy”
Responding from ego
When I found out one of my favorite people is visiting in Europe from Caribbean, I was dying inside. The human in me reacted strongly from the ego, wanting to guilt him why he didn’t tell me beforehand so that we could see each other. No blame, no shame, no guilt -policy.In the heat ofContinue reading “Responding from ego”
Love is love
I like watching reality shows because they are an experiment to human psyche what happens when you’re confined in a small space with strangers, and depending on the purpose of the show, how do they get the desired outcome which is usually being crowned as winners. The observations I receive blows my mind at times.Continue reading “Love is love”
The stigma around sexual health
In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. All of us are responsible for what we digest; the food, the information, the music, overall health. Digestion isn’t just food, it’s everything we observe and absorb from our surroundings. We are always 100% energeticContinue reading “The stigma around sexual health”
Intimacy Issues
In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. In my previous post, I shared some thoughts on how porn has ruined intimacy. Sex and intimacy are often confused; intimacy isn’t the same as sex. Though they should go hand-in-hand, in today’s society and cultureContinue reading “Intimacy Issues”
Porn has ruined intimacy
In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. The title is a bold statement to make, I know. What is life if I can’t ruffle some feathers every so often? Let me unravel what I mean by this.. We live in a hookContinue reading “Porn has ruined intimacy”
Masculine & Feminine Polarities
In order to attract the divine partner you are seeking, you have to start to understand the polarities of feminine & masculine energies. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, women who are too much in their masculine find it hard to trust the men. They focus on the lack; on the negative aspects ofContinue reading “Masculine & Feminine Polarities”
Love That Matters 