New era, new state of being

According to The Gregorian calendar, we have changed decades. I’m still kind of bamboozled about it for a couple of reasons. No longer can we say ‘in 20’s’ and mean 1920s. We need the distinction now. But also, 2000’s is the era of music. All of my favorite songs are from early-to-mid noughties. These songsContinue reading “New era, new state of being”

Boundaries are self-care

I was watching Keeping up with the Kardashians, yes I watch the show. Don’t judge. Kourtney, the eldest sister, has set several boundaries around what she wants to share on camera. And her relationships and dating status isn’t one of them. Kim & Khloe share a lot of their drama and what goes on inContinue reading “Boundaries are self-care”

Strive for growth

Twice now in a short period of time, I’ve retaliated with two different men in two different occasions. The men that I’m drawn to are alpha males; they prefer order, structure, and logic. They’re assertive, demand respect, and strive for growth.   Many women are unable to truly deal with alpha male.Why? Because when they’reContinue reading “Strive for growth”

Real Life Jane the Virgin

It’s been a minute since I’ve written a decent blog post, but so much has been going on that I’ve not really been in a writing mood. In fact, I’ve challenged myself to do more audio content and especially record videos. It is as much for you as it is for me; you get toContinue reading “Real Life Jane the Virgin”

Responding from ego

When I found out one of my favorite people is visiting in Europe from Caribbean, I was dying inside. The human in me reacted strongly from the ego, wanting to guilt him why he didn’t tell me beforehand so that we could see each other. No blame, no shame, no guilt -policy.In the heat ofContinue reading “Responding from ego”

Showing up authentically

These Solar storms are throwing me on a loop. Well, they’re not exactly storms but so many planets are on retrograde, new moon is upon us and Solar Eclipse is on as well. I am a Moon Child, among many other things, meaning that I feel these planets on a whole another level. It’s notContinue reading “Showing up authentically”

Intimacy Issues

In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. In my previous post, I shared some thoughts on how porn has ruined intimacy. Sex and intimacy are often confused; intimacy isn’t the same as sex. Though they should go hand-in-hand, in today’s society and cultureContinue reading “Intimacy Issues”

Porn has ruined intimacy

In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. The title is a bold statement to make, I know. What is life if I can’t ruffle some feathers every so often? Let me unravel what I mean by this..   We live in a hookContinue reading “Porn has ruined intimacy”

Orgasmic bliss

In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. At the cusp of February-March this year, I experienced something quite unusual that actually started mid-February during my visit to see my best friend in the States. My solar plexus chakra started vibrating really hard, andContinue reading “Orgasmic bliss”

Beta Woman Attraction

Alpha men love women who are; Soft spokenDown-to-earthA little shyIntrovertedA caring soulCreative or ArtisticHighly IntelligentWittyEmpathetic and EmotionalEasily approachableSpiritualLoyal A beta woman is loved by everyone as she is shy, submissive and has sweet, down-to-earth personality. She doesn’t mind others taking the lead but she has the potential to do so herself. She goes out ofContinue reading “Beta Woman Attraction”