According to The Gregorian calendar, we have changed decades. I’m still kind of bamboozled about it for a couple of reasons. No longer can we say ‘in 20’s’ and mean 1920s. We need the distinction now. But also, 2000’s is the era of music. All of my favorite songs are from early-to-mid noughties. These songsContinue reading “New era, new state of being”
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Boundaries are self-care
I was watching Keeping up with the Kardashians, yes I watch the show. Don’t judge. Kourtney, the eldest sister, has set several boundaries around what she wants to share on camera. And her relationships and dating status isn’t one of them. Kim & Khloe share a lot of their drama and what goes on inContinue reading “Boundaries are self-care”
Just BE. Just BREATHE.
The men who are in my life currently are extremely supportive of me. Sometimes it’s hard for me to receive all of it. Be selective, be reflective.The more I know who I am, the more I know what I want and my own worthiness, the more they treat me with respect. But I’m very selectiveContinue reading “Just BE. Just BREATHE.”
Strive for growth
Twice now in a short period of time, I’ve retaliated with two different men in two different occasions. The men that I’m drawn to are alpha males; they prefer order, structure, and logic. They’re assertive, demand respect, and strive for growth. Many women are unable to truly deal with alpha male.Why? Because when they’reContinue reading “Strive for growth”
Health is wealth
I’m not a victim of my circumstances. Ever. I always have the power to choose, which is both a blessing and a curse. In those moments when I feel weak, tired and anxiety ridden, I don’t wanna face any decisions. The smallest of things enhances my negative emotions, even something simple as what to makeContinue reading “Health is wealth”
Absorbing the weekend
These last four days have been nothing short of magic. I feel like I’m on a spiritual initiation, something way bigger is happening than what I can comprehend. But everything is aligning divinely. When something major happens in my life, I like to reflect back. As I was preparing to write this post, I wasContinue reading “Absorbing the weekend”
Emotional Intimacy
Many times I’ve tried to start this post. Many times I’ve failed. This is raw and real, it’s vulnerable and something I don’t particularly like to share. I don’t like to share about this because of the shame and guilt around it — but the pain is turned into strength only when you can shedContinue reading “Emotional Intimacy”
Real Life Jane the Virgin
It’s been a minute since I’ve written a decent blog post, but so much has been going on that I’ve not really been in a writing mood. In fact, I’ve challenged myself to do more audio content and especially record videos. It is as much for you as it is for me; you get toContinue reading “Real Life Jane the Virgin”
Responding from ego
When I found out one of my favorite people is visiting in Europe from Caribbean, I was dying inside. The human in me reacted strongly from the ego, wanting to guilt him why he didn’t tell me beforehand so that we could see each other. No blame, no shame, no guilt -policy.In the heat ofContinue reading “Responding from ego”
Showing up authentically
These Solar storms are throwing me on a loop. Well, they’re not exactly storms but so many planets are on retrograde, new moon is upon us and Solar Eclipse is on as well. I am a Moon Child, among many other things, meaning that I feel these planets on a whole another level. It’s notContinue reading “Showing up authentically”
Love That Matters 