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Empowered Submission

Submission is so much more than just sexual. It is surrendering to his timing. It is giving him space when he asks for it. It is holding space for him with whatever it is he is going through. Surrendering is allowing him to take the lead. Respecting him, never speaking ill of him. Even whenContinue reading “Empowered Submission”

Health is wealth

I’m not a victim of my circumstances. Ever. I always have the power to choose, which is both a blessing and a curse. In those moments when I feel weak, tired and anxiety ridden, I don’t wanna face any decisions. The smallest of things enhances my negative emotions, even something simple as what to makeContinue reading “Health is wealth”

Emotional Intimacy

Many times I’ve tried to start this post. Many times I’ve failed. This is raw and real, it’s vulnerable and something I don’t particularly like to share. I don’t like to share about this because of the shame and guilt around it — but the pain is turned into strength only when you can shedContinue reading “Emotional Intimacy”

First Fetish Event

I asked on my Instagram, what would you be interested more about, healthy Dom/sub dynamic or my 1st fetish event.. and it was 50/50 for both. So, I am going to write about both but let’s unravel the fetish event first. A lot’s been shifting and changing for me, in the bestest of ways possible!Continue reading “First Fetish Event”

Feminism & BDSM

When Noel from The Deviant Code reached out and asked me to talk about modern day feminism within BDSM, I was absolutely honored. He’d been reading my blog and said he wanted my perspective on the podcast around what it means to be a feminist in 2019 and how does that play into kink (punContinue reading “Feminism & BDSM”

Submission is a gift

***Trigger warning: if you’re highly sensitive individual, it’s best you stop here and skip this post. This may be highly triggering to some, please remain respectful and compassionate if you continue to read. You are reading this at your own discretion.*** I’m very clear on my boundaries and my consent these days; don’t touch meContinue reading “Submission is a gift”

Surrender yourself

Someone asked me a little while ago what makes me feel most confident? Where do I get my confidence from? The answer surprised myself even; submission. Categorize me, I defy every label.We are such fluid human beings that anything can change at any given moment. Labels should be there only as a jump off point,Continue reading “Surrender yourself”