freedom based loving – Love That Matters

Responding from ego

When I found out one of my favorite people is visiting in Europe from Caribbean, I was dying inside. The human in me reacted strongly from the ego, wanting to guilt him why he didn’t tell me beforehand so that we could see each other. No blame, no shame, no guilt -policy.In the heat ofContinue reading “Responding from ego”

Word on forgiveness

I have a past. We all do. None of is exempt of making illogical, irrational and even inconsiderate decisions. When you’re young, you tend to live by some unconscious rules or maybe you’re a little bit outlawed. And when I say you, I don’t mean you as the person, I mean you – the human.Continue reading “Word on forgiveness”

Slut Shaming, pt. 2

I was prompted to make another post on slut shaming as I gained another perspective or layer for this. Read my own experience here. Women shut down men because they internalize slut shaming. They fear of how they are being seen if they sleep with a lot of men. If a woman is continues toContinue reading “Slut Shaming, pt. 2”