According to The Gregorian calendar, we have changed decades. I’m still kind of bamboozled about it for a couple of reasons. No longer can we say ‘in 20’s’ and mean 1920s. We need the distinction now. But also, 2000’s is the era of music. All of my favorite songs are from early-to-mid noughties. These songsContinue reading “New era, new state of being”
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Boundaries are self-care
I was watching Keeping up with the Kardashians, yes I watch the show. Don’t judge. Kourtney, the eldest sister, has set several boundaries around what she wants to share on camera. And her relationships and dating status isn’t one of them. Kim & Khloe share a lot of their drama and what goes on inContinue reading “Boundaries are self-care”
Strive for growth
Twice now in a short period of time, I’ve retaliated with two different men in two different occasions. The men that I’m drawn to are alpha males; they prefer order, structure, and logic. They’re assertive, demand respect, and strive for growth. Many women are unable to truly deal with alpha male.Why? Because when they’reContinue reading “Strive for growth”
Real Life Jane the Virgin
It’s been a minute since I’ve written a decent blog post, but so much has been going on that I’ve not really been in a writing mood. In fact, I’ve challenged myself to do more audio content and especially record videos. It is as much for you as it is for me; you get toContinue reading “Real Life Jane the Virgin”
Responding from ego
When I found out one of my favorite people is visiting in Europe from Caribbean, I was dying inside. The human in me reacted strongly from the ego, wanting to guilt him why he didn’t tell me beforehand so that we could see each other. No blame, no shame, no guilt -policy.In the heat ofContinue reading “Responding from ego”
Showing up authentically
These Solar storms are throwing me on a loop. Well, they’re not exactly storms but so many planets are on retrograde, new moon is upon us and Solar Eclipse is on as well. I am a Moon Child, among many other things, meaning that I feel these planets on a whole another level. It’s notContinue reading “Showing up authentically”
When you’re not feeling good enough
On a good day, it’s easy to make yourself believe you are good enough. That you are a Queen who should be treated as such. But what about the days when you don’t feel like you are willing to put in the effort to look your best because you don’t feel your best. What aboutContinue reading “When you’re not feeling good enough”
Edging – What is it and how can it help you manifest?
In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. In the world of kink, edgeplay is dangerous and abusive. It is defined as play that can cause extreme harm, ie. gunplay, fireplay, breath play, blood play. Or it can mean to play with an edge;Continue reading “Edging – What is it and how can it help you manifest?”
Intimacy Issues
In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. In my previous post, I shared some thoughts on how porn has ruined intimacy. Sex and intimacy are often confused; intimacy isn’t the same as sex. Though they should go hand-in-hand, in today’s society and cultureContinue reading “Intimacy Issues”
Porn has ruined intimacy
In honor of Mental Health Month & Masturbation Month, May is dedicated to all things related to sexual health. The title is a bold statement to make, I know. What is life if I can’t ruffle some feathers every so often? Let me unravel what I mean by this.. We live in a hookContinue reading “Porn has ruined intimacy”
Love That Matters 