Submission is so much more than just sexual. It is surrendering to his timing. It is giving him space when he asks for it. It is holding space for him with whatever it is he is going through. Surrendering is allowing him to take the lead. Respecting him, never speaking ill of him. Even whenContinue reading “Empowered Submission”
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Is trust earned or is it given?
The hot topic a few weeks ago was trust. Can it be earned or is it given freely? Prior to the show, The Deviant Code’s Noel and I had a discussion whether or not trust is given. My initial thoughts on the subject was: “On a psychological level, I feel high quality men require forContinue reading “Is trust earned or is it given?”
Feminism & BDSM
When Noel from The Deviant Code reached out and asked me to talk about modern day feminism within BDSM, I was absolutely honored. He’d been reading my blog and said he wanted my perspective on the podcast around what it means to be a feminist in 2019 and how does that play into kink (punContinue reading “Feminism & BDSM”
Submission is a gift
***Trigger warning: if you’re highly sensitive individual, it’s best you stop here and skip this post. This may be highly triggering to some, please remain respectful and compassionate if you continue to read. You are reading this at your own discretion.*** I’m very clear on my boundaries and my consent these days; don’t touch meContinue reading “Submission is a gift”
Surrender yourself
Someone asked me a little while ago what makes me feel most confident? Where do I get my confidence from? The answer surprised myself even; submission. Categorize me, I defy every label.We are such fluid human beings that anything can change at any given moment. Labels should be there only as a jump off point,Continue reading “Surrender yourself”
Responding from ego
When I found out one of my favorite people is visiting in Europe from Caribbean, I was dying inside. The human in me reacted strongly from the ego, wanting to guilt him why he didn’t tell me beforehand so that we could see each other. No blame, no shame, no guilt -policy.In the heat ofContinue reading “Responding from ego”
Love is love
I like watching reality shows because they are an experiment to human psyche what happens when you’re confined in a small space with strangers, and depending on the purpose of the show, how do they get the desired outcome which is usually being crowned as winners. The observations I receive blows my mind at times.Continue reading “Love is love”
Showing up authentically
These Solar storms are throwing me on a loop. Well, they’re not exactly storms but so many planets are on retrograde, new moon is upon us and Solar Eclipse is on as well. I am a Moon Child, among many other things, meaning that I feel these planets on a whole another level. It’s notContinue reading “Showing up authentically”
Relationships work as catalysts
There’s a man in my life who satisfies my deepest, darkest needs. Needs I didn’t know even existed within me. Well, I guess I knew, but they’ve never been acknowledged. I always get what I want, not what I need. My inner child has been going rogue. It’s been untamed. Mostly because she’s never received theContinue reading “Relationships work as catalysts”
What is your Soul calling out to do?
I took a week off from writing. This was a conscious decision because I felt like I needed some distance. And you know what they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder. This blog, this side of the work that I do, is such a Soul Aligned thing that I need to always ensure I’mContinue reading “What is your Soul calling out to do?”
Love That Matters 