The hot topic a few weeks ago was trust. Can it be earned or is it given freely? Prior to the show, The Deviant Code’s Noel and I had a discussion whether or not trust is given. My initial thoughts on the subject was: “On a psychological level, I feel high quality men require forContinue reading “Is trust earned or is it given?”
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Love is love
I like watching reality shows because they are an experiment to human psyche what happens when you’re confined in a small space with strangers, and depending on the purpose of the show, how do they get the desired outcome which is usually being crowned as winners. The observations I receive blows my mind at times.Continue reading “Love is love”
Showing up authentically
These Solar storms are throwing me on a loop. Well, they’re not exactly storms but so many planets are on retrograde, new moon is upon us and Solar Eclipse is on as well. I am a Moon Child, among many other things, meaning that I feel these planets on a whole another level. It’s notContinue reading “Showing up authentically”
Relationships work as catalysts
There’s a man in my life who satisfies my deepest, darkest needs. Needs I didn’t know even existed within me. Well, I guess I knew, but they’ve never been acknowledged. I always get what I want, not what I need. My inner child has been going rogue. It’s been untamed. Mostly because she’s never received theContinue reading “Relationships work as catalysts”
What is your Soul calling out to do?
I took a week off from writing. This was a conscious decision because I felt like I needed some distance. And you know what they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder. This blog, this side of the work that I do, is such a Soul Aligned thing that I need to always ensure I’mContinue reading “What is your Soul calling out to do?”
Reflections
Hello June! I meant to write and publish this yesterday but after my 8 hour appointment on a hairdresser’s chair and seeing a friend, I didn’t have the energy to finish this. You can also expect some minor changes on here in the next week. Anyways, moving on… Isn’t it crazy how 6 monthsContinue reading “Reflections”
Slut Shaming, pt. 2
I was prompted to make another post on slut shaming as I gained another perspective or layer for this. Read my own experience here. Women shut down men because they internalize slut shaming. They fear of how they are being seen if they sleep with a lot of men. If a woman is continues toContinue reading “Slut Shaming, pt. 2”
Authentic Communication
So often the word authenticity comes up. But what does it really mean? To me, it means being congruent to yourself. Knowing who you are, what you desire, and taking aligned action toward the desires. It’s even more than that. It’s setting the boundaries for yourself and abiding to them. How does this translateContinue reading “Authentic Communication”
The time I got slut-shamed
There’s stigma around slut shaming other women, when there’s no need for this. When women start fighting over the same man, my heart hurts. We should not be in competition of one another, rather we should empower each other. There are plenty of men out there who will want you. There are plenty ofContinue reading “The time I got slut-shamed”
No one man can satisfy ALL your needs
I was just having a conversation with a close friend of mine of how no one man can satisfy ALL your needs. There’s nothing to be ashamed about that either. You can get attention from different guys at once, each giving you different kind of attention, and you should feel feminine & empowered BECAUSE ofContinue reading “No one man can satisfy ALL your needs”
Love That Matters 