Hello June! I meant to write and publish this yesterday but after my 8 hour appointment on a hairdresser’s chair and seeing a friend, I didn’t have the energy to finish this. You can also expect some minor changes on here in the next week. Anyways, moving on… Isn’t it crazy how 6 monthsContinue reading “Reflections”
Tag Archives: open relating
Beta Woman Attraction
Alpha men love women who are; Soft spokenDown-to-earthA little shyIntrovertedA caring soulCreative or ArtisticHighly IntelligentWittyEmpathetic and EmotionalEasily approachableSpiritualLoyal A beta woman is loved by everyone as she is shy, submissive and has sweet, down-to-earth personality. She doesn’t mind others taking the lead but she has the potential to do so herself. She goes out ofContinue reading “Beta Woman Attraction”
Masculine & Feminine Polarities
In order to attract the divine partner you are seeking, you have to start to understand the polarities of feminine & masculine energies. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, women who are too much in their masculine find it hard to trust the men. They focus on the lack; on the negative aspects ofContinue reading “Masculine & Feminine Polarities”
Slut Shaming, pt. 2
I was prompted to make another post on slut shaming as I gained another perspective or layer for this. Read my own experience here. Women shut down men because they internalize slut shaming. They fear of how they are being seen if they sleep with a lot of men. If a woman is continues toContinue reading “Slut Shaming, pt. 2”
Authentic Communication
So often the word authenticity comes up. But what does it really mean? To me, it means being congruent to yourself. Knowing who you are, what you desire, and taking aligned action toward the desires. It’s even more than that. It’s setting the boundaries for yourself and abiding to them. How does this translateContinue reading “Authentic Communication”
The time I got slut-shamed
There’s stigma around slut shaming other women, when there’s no need for this. When women start fighting over the same man, my heart hurts. We should not be in competition of one another, rather we should empower each other. There are plenty of men out there who will want you. There are plenty ofContinue reading “The time I got slut-shamed”
Enoughness
Repeat after me: I am enough. I don’t think any man prefers a woman who doesn’t feel worthy. Much the same way no woman enjoys a man who doesn’t think highly of himself. In order to truly attract a divine masculine man into your life, you need to know you’re worthy. Worthy does not meanContinue reading “Enoughness”
You want more commitment
Are you triggered when he calls you a friend? You’re in the right place at the right time, reading this. When “a friend” of mine asked me if I was looking for the title, I was bamboozled. Why would I need to have the title to define the relationship? This reminded me of how farContinue reading “You want more commitment”
Stop chasing after him
The best advice I have ever received from my relationship coach, was two-fold; Watch what you say when he’s not around Love him for who he is not So, I am here to tell you the same thing. Be mindful of how you talk about him to your girl friends and other people. If youContinue reading “Stop chasing after him”
Withdrawings
I’ve even forgotten how to be vulnerable around/with men, yet I share everything with my girl friends. That’s a depth that scares me. That’s my shadow, unwilling to be seen because if it was.. would it be judged, would the other person run away? I’m only learning to be authentically me. To stay congruent to myself, and express my emotions without any accusations or blame. Merely sharing my thoughts, feelings, and emotions. It feels liberating.
Love That Matters 